- Detachment is the real connection
- I am not responsible for your emotions, even if I hurt you (anyway, I cannot hurt you without hurting myself, and I cannot hurt you if you don't allow that to happen - you have all the power to be not affected by external things). Only you are responsible for your emotions, remember! And vice versa
- If you are angry or pissed off about anything outside, remember, it's not the external thing that annoys you, it's you who are pissed off at yourself for not being all that you're