My favorite topic in recent chats with my friends is love and relationship. Maybe we all have boring love lives. Maybe we’re all single and looking for some kind of relationships. Maybe it’s just fun to talk about.
There is one common thing between the 3 of us, we are having a hard time to find the one that we enjoy spending time with AND have shared value.
After several times talking about this topic, I realize 2 things:
First, there are always 2 cases when you date a new guy: 1- those are fun to hang-out but don’t have the same sense of purpose with you; 2 - those have shared value with you but… boring.
Because it’s hard to find the one that matches both conditions, we keep dating and breaking up the wrong guys.
Second, to at least start a relationship, you need chemistry! The first feeling is like the stimulation in a chemical reaction. You need it to get the ball rolling.
For the relationship to sustain, it’s when shared value come into play. That’s when you share your life with your partner and let her/him come into it. Without the same values and sense of purpose, there would be conflict and disagreement. This is what we think the biggest reason that ended our last relationship.
So, do you agree with us?