Is it normal to be terrified of having to work for the rest of my life?
Copied from comment section in reddit. [-] durtysamsquamch 1.5k points · 1 day ago Yes I think it's something that any intelligent...
Copied from comment section in reddit.
[-] durtysamsquamch 1.5k points · 1 day ago
Yes I think it's something that any intelligent person will eventually consider.
When you're young the future seems full of possibilities. You're told that your dream job is out there somewhere if you just work hard enough to reach it. You're told that satisfaction and fulfillment can be found from a career with good financial prospects. You're aware of this thing called the rat-race but you don't really understand what it is.
And then when you have a few years of work experience you start to see that effort and merit aren't what enable you to climb the ladder. You come to realize that time is the most valuable commodity and that your boss is using your time as a multiplier for his success. And he didn't get that position by being the best, he got it by making people believe he knew what he was doing.
But nobody truly knows what they're doing. Being an adult doesn't magically answer the question of "what is this all about". There are some personality types who are so self-absorbed they believe they're always right, and they're the ones who get ahead because they don't show self doubt. And they recognize that trait in each other and promote each other. They recognize that other people haven't realized that yet, the ones who are still working their socks off to get ahead, and they use them. They assemble teams of those other introspective and self-aware personality types and they get shitloads of work done, under their name. And they move up and up the ladder until they're getting paid multiples of what you are. But they're not doing the work and often they don't even understand it.
IME that's what makes many careers unfulfilling and soul destroying, at least in the realm of office jobs. So look for that fulfillment outside of your career. And if you're lucky the stars will align and you can turn that into a career that you do actually love. I mean there are people who wash dogs for a living that make more money than someone who spent 200k on education and spent 10 years getting up before dawn to put the hours in.
I'm sorry if that sounds too depressing or defeatist, but the takeaway point should be that the cliche about following your dreams isn't always a cliche. I know it's hard to see a way out of your current situation but you do need to find something you like and keep doing that. The opportunities will appear, believe me. There are millions of niches that you didn't even know existed. And when your time is spent doing something you enjoy and that you find fulfilling, is it really work?
English Zone
/english-zone
Bài viết nổi bật khác
- Hot nhất
- Mới nhất