As a 20+ boy who suffered a lot of “up & down” times in love. I have some mindset about love at this time (maybe it will be changed in the future).

We are too young to think about marriage or long-term relationships. (chúng ta còn quá trẻ để tính tới chuyện sau này). It depends on what is the target & priority at this time. With me, marriage is a distant story, it is not my concern. My priority is other things so I have a peaceful psychology about it. If we can go far, that's great; if not, that's OK, too.

If it isn't you, it will be someone else. Don't stubborn (Không có người này thì có người khác, bớt lụy). I remember my first love, I thought: She is ideal for my life,  I'll never meet anyone like her." Until now, it is correct that no one likes her:)) because they are better:v (more appropriate). I've learned from many individuals that no one is the best; we're good, but life has a better version, so it's the "duyên" - we'll marry the best suit for us.

 Thanks all ex-lovers (Cảm ơn tất cả). Because of their appearance, I experienced a lot of valuable lessons, I opened my eyes to see the world. If they weren’t part of my life, I didn’t get those perspectives. With this mindset, I don't feel angry or regretful when I reminisce on old stories. At that time, It was my choice at the time, as well as theirs, and we have learned from it, so thank you very much.

If you're having trouble with the love story, I will say: “Enjoy it”. (Nên cảm thấy vui, vì còn “được buồn”). Because we are still a young generation with a youth time. If it is covered by all funny things, it is contrasted with the universe rule, it will lack a sad feeling. If it doesn’t happen this time, it will come in one day so keep calm to receive that gift. Furthermore, many people said: they are dead inside (chết tâm), they experienced everything and so they don’t feel anything about break-up emotion. I think that is the worst thing so this time, we still have regular emotions is a big happy !!!